Update README.tuplock

Multixact truncation is now handled differently, and this file hadn't
gotten the memo.

Per note from Amit Langote.  I didn't use his patch, though.

Also update the description of infomask bits, which weren't completely up
to date either.  This commit also propagates b01a4f68 back to 9.3 and
9.4, which apparently I failed to do back then.