Revise ResourceOwner code to avoid accumulating ResourceOwner objects

for every command executed within a transaction.  For long transactions
this was a significant memory leak.  Instead, we can delete a portal's
or subtransaction's ResourceOwner immediately, if we physically transfer
the information about its locks up to the parent owner.  This does not
fully solve the leak problem; we need to do something about counting
multiple acquisitions of the same lock in order to fix it.  But it's a
necessary step along the way.