Further cleanup of array behavior. Slice assignments to arrays with

varlena elements work now.  Allow assignment to previously-nonexistent
subscript position to extend array, but only for 1-D arrays and only
if adjacent to existing positions (could do more if we had a way to
represent nulls in arrays, but I don't want to tackle that now).
Arrange for assignment of NULL to an array element in UPDATE to be a
no-op, rather than setting the entire array to NULL as it used to.
(Throwing an error would be a reasonable alternative, but it's never
done that...)  Update regress test accordingly.