Teach the configure script to validate its --with-pgport argument.

Previously, configure would take any string, including an empty string,
leading to obscure compile failures in guc.c.  It seems worth expending
a few lines of code to ensure that the argument is a decimal number
between 1 and 65535.

Report and patch by Jim Nasby; reviews by Alex Shulgin, Peter Eisentraut,
Ivan Kartyshov