postgres_fdw: Refactor deparsing code for locking clauses.

The upcoming patch to allow join pushdown in postgres_fdw needs to use
this code multiple times, which requires moving it to deparse.c.  That
seems like a good idea anyway, so do that now both on general principle
and to simplify the future patch.

Inspired by a patch by Shigeru Hanada and Ashutosh Bapat, but I did
it a little differently than what that patch did.