Redo postgres_fdw's planner code so it can handle parameterized paths.

I wasn't going to ship this without having at least some example of how
to do that.  This version isn't terribly bright; in particular it won't
consider any combinations of multiple join clauses.  Given the cost of
executing a remote EXPLAIN, I'm not sure we want to be very aggressive
about doing that, anyway.

In support of this, refactor generate_implied_equalities_for_indexcol
so that it can be used to extract equivalence clauses that aren't
necessarily tied to an index.