Rename PQsslAttributes() to PQsslAttributeNames(), and const-ify fully.

Per discussion, the original name was a bit misleading, and
PQsslAttributeNames() seems more apropos.  It's not quite too late to
change this in 9.5, so let's change it while we can.

Also, make sure that the pointer array is const, not only the pointed-to
strings.

Minor documentation wordsmithing while at it.

Lars Kanis, slight adjustments by me