Improve pg_upgrade's status display

Pg_upgrade displays file names during copy and database names during
dump/restore.  Andrew Dunstan identified three bugs:

*  long file names were being truncated to 60 _leading_ characters, which
   often do not change for long file names

*  file names were truncated to 60 characters in log files

*  carriage returns were being output to log files

This commit fixes these --- it prints 60 _trailing_ characters to the
status display, and full path names without carriage returns to log
files.  It also suppresses status output to the log file unless verbose
mode is used.