Fix ON CONFLICT bugs that manifest when used in rules.

Specifically the tlist and rti of the pseudo "excluded" relation weren't
properly treated by expression_tree_walker, which lead to errors when
excluded was referenced inside a rule because the varnos where not
properly adjusted.  Similar omissions in OffsetVarNodes and
expression_tree_mutator had less impact, but should obviously be fixed
nonetheless.

A couple tests of for ON CONFLICT UPDATE into INSERT rule bearing
relations have been added.

In passing I updated a couple comments.