Improve check for overly-long extensible node name.

The old code is bad for two reasons.  First, it has an off-by-one
error.  Second, it won't help if you aren't running with assertions
enabled.  Per discussion, we want a check here in that case too.

Author: KaiGai Kohei, adjusted by me.
Reviewed-by: Petr Jelinek
Discussion: 56E0D547.1030101@2ndquadrant.com