Fix WITH attached to a nested set operation (UNION/INTERSECT/EXCEPT).

Parse analysis neglected to cover the case of a WITH clause attached to an
intermediate-level set operation; it only handled WITH at the top level
or WITH attached to a leaf-level SELECT.  Per report from Adam Mackler.

In HEAD, I rearranged the order of SelectStmt's fields to put withClause
with the other fields that can appear on non-leaf SelectStmts.  In back
branches, leave it alone to avoid a possible ABI break for third-party
code.

Back-patch to 8.4 where WITH support was added.