libpq: Allow connection strings and URIs to specify multiple hosts.

It's also possible to specify a separate port for each host.

Previously, we'd loop over every address returned by looking up the
host name; now, we'll try every address for every host name.

Patch by me.  Victor Wagner wrote an earlier patch for this feature,
which I read, but I didn't use any of his code.  Review by Mithun Cy.