Move strategy numbers to include/access/stratnum.h

For upcoming BRIN opclasses, it's convenient to have strategy numbers
defined in a single place.  Since there's nothing appropriate, create
it.  The StrategyNumber typedef now lives there, as well as existing
strategy numbers for B-trees (from skey.h) and R-tree-and-friends (from
gist.h).  skey.h is forced to include stratnum.h because of the
StrategyNumber typedef, but gist.h is not; extensions that currently
rely on gist.h for rtree strategy numbers might need to add a new

A few .c files can stop including skey.h and/or gist.h, which is a nice
side benefit.

Per discussion:
https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/20150514232132.GZ2523@alvh.no-ip.org

Authored by Emre Hasegeli and Álvaro.

(It's not clear to me why bootscanner.l has any #include lines at all.)