Allow rel_is_distinct_for() to look through RelabelType below OpExpr.

This lets it do the right thing for, eg, varchar columns.
Back-patch to 9.5 where this logic appeared.

David Rowley, per report from Kim Rose Carlsen

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/VI1PR05MB17091F9A9876528055D6A827C76D0@VI1PR05MB1709.eurprd05.prod.outlook.com