Replace xlc __fetch_and_add() with inline asm.

PostgreSQL has been unusable when built with xlc 13 and newer, which are
incompatible with our use of __fetch_and_add().  Back-patch to 9.5,
which introduced pg_atomic_fetch_add_u32().

Reviewed by Tom Lane.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20190831071157.GA3251746@rfd.leadboat.com