Improve performance of find_tabstat_entry()/get_tabstat_entry()

Patch introduces a hash map reloid -> PgStat_TableStatus which improves
performance in case of large number of tables/partitions.

Author: Aleksander Alekseev
Reviewed-by: Andres Freund, Anastasia Lubennikova, Tels, me

https://commitfest.postgresql.org/13/1058/